Lately I have been running into people that are holding some pretty long grudges. Here’s how forgiveness works for those of you who are not familiar. When you forgive someone for something they have done you never bring it up and never mention it. You can not expect the person to change because you forgave them. They are still the same person. What it did was taught you how to associate with that particular person. If this same person keeps burning you that means your stupid. If you’re still mad at someone who did something to you 3 years ago I need you to grow up. Chances are you knew they ass would do you like that anyway so why are you mad. The funny thing about this is you’re the only one still mad about it. The other person has moved on and don’t care no more. If you are holding a grudge with someone the root cause is always an insecurity in your life that you need to address. The reason you are holding the grudge is because they hit that one insecurity that you have so you are more prone to sensitivity in that particular area and that is why it is hard to forget. The bible says you can not be forgiven if you don’t forgive. What adult holds grudges for years? I need you to grow up. My dad brought up a situation that happened to him over 20 years ago and he got so angry. I asked him if he let it go and he said “yes”, but I knew that was a lie because how angry he got. Shit happens and nothing you can do to stop it. You can either let it sit in the toilet and stink up your house or you can flush that shit and feel 10 pounds lighter.
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