The Ten Women Rules
Sunday, May 31, 2009 at 06:17PM Rule #1 Be Confident
Confidence is key. I met
a girl who was a pretty girl and is the dream of a million men, but because her
self-esteem is shot she gets fucked over weekly because she banks on her beauty
and her pussy to keep a man yet she is “single” every other week.
Rule #2 Stay maintained
to be an option
Always look great,
whatever your income. It is mandatory to have your hair and nails done as a
grown woman…no excuses. I don’t give a damn if it’s not in the
budget. If you stop eating out then it will be in the budget. Please don't do it yourself...we can tell. You have
the advantage, you are the woman. Look your best as you could meet a potential
anywhere at any time. Funny thing about women is you all aren’t allowed
to have bad days in a man’s eyes. Try and stay in shape and involve some
fitness regime at a gym or your home. However much you hate it, he loves your
body as much as your mind. You have to be hot all the time. When
your single you need to look good when you run to the store or going to get
gas. Not saying you have to have on make-up. I’m just saying if you
have to put on a hat because of a bad hair day make sure it’s a cute hat.
If you can’t dress, have bad weave, and your make-up is bad then consult my
sister Kimberly Williams kimberlynwilliams@gmail.com
or Zakiya Larry zakiya_larry@yahoo.com they are pretty fashion
forward and would love to help (Yeah I just threw them under the bus). There is nothing wrong
with getting help.
Rule #3 Fuck at your own
risk
The pussy is all you
got. Every dude that meets you and wants to engage in getting to know you
has one thing on his mind…..pussy. It’s your job to mend the sexual attraction to mental
attraction then you lock his ass in. I’m sure
at this point you’re thinking I should have used a better word for it, but
that’s the word men have come to love and use. Never ever sleep with a guy
until he has fallen for you. Sex early in your dating game plan will ruin
everything. Now if your grown and horny and you just want to fuck then
put it in his life, but just know that’s just what it is. If you don’t
have history with him then keep your pussy. This is the #1 killer of
dating. Your friend’s circumstances are not yours. Just because she
fucked on the first night and they are still together don't mean that shit will
work for you. Everything is all good til’ sex
gets involved. After sex they start charging you up, stalking your
facebook page, sitting outside your house when you get home from the club, and
coming to your house drunk late at night with their friends because you didn’t
answer your phone. I’m sorry I had a flashback.
Rule #4 Know the signs
If any man shows the
slightest signs of possessiveness or insecurity run like the wind. Women refuse
to see signs in the beginning because you just so want this dude to be the
one. If he ain’t then dammit he ain’t. You know he was a little off
when you met him. Everybody you meet will have flaws. The key is to
find someone with flaws you can deal with. I can deal with a girl that
talks a lot, but I cannot deal with a girl that fucks a lot. And when I
say fucks a lot I mean she fucks everybody but me. That’s a flaw I can’t
deal with.
Rule #5 Information
Never reveal too much information.
An enigmatic woman keeps us thinking. Keep dates brief but your men interested.
Less is always more. Never ever talk about previous boyfriends and particularly
their prowess in the bedroom. The number of ex boyfriends is your business
only. And DO NOT tell him how many dudes you had sex with or the last
dude you had sex with. Men use that to gauge a timeframe that they think
they can hit that ass. Pretty much keep the convo in general. And keep
your drinking to a minimal. Give ya’ll asses two margaritas and you start
telling your life story. Honestly, he might be nodding and grinning, but
he really doesn’t give a damn.
Rule #6
Availability
Never be too available
when he wants you to be. Never be at the end of a phone when he calls and
always let him leave a message or two first before replying. Don’t be so
damn eager all the time. Men like to be on the chase for a minute.
We like it when ya’ll act funny. There is no fun in a game that can be
beat easily. If he stops pursuing then he really isn’t worth
pursuing. Now if the case is you’re scheduling dates and standing him up
or just plain bullshittin’ on your end then its your bad and not his.
Rule #7 Make him spend
Make him spend
money. Every time he calls you tryin’ to kick it make his ass take you
somewhere. A man’s love is his money and a man’s money is his life.
If he takes you out and his intention is just to fuck then you will know when
he stops tryin’ to take you out because he has not gotten a return on the money
he spent. Now if he is genuine he will take you out and not trip because
sex is not his motive. Me personally I like to wait til’ she wants me to
have it. The sex is so much better. I’m sorry…..that was T.M.I.
Rule #8 Game Life
Game has a lifeline. Give it a
chance to let the game run out. Dudes can only try to impress and run
game for so long. After a while his true self shows. Most of ya’ll
fuck before the game runs out so when he show himself your disappointed, but
it’s your fault not his. Most of ya’ll know these dudes are full of shit
from jump. Take responsibility for choosing to be an idiot in hopes of
finding love. This shit ain’t a movie. Pretty Woman never happened
in real life. Be smart and let the game run out.
Rule #9 Return Policy
Funny thing about men is
that we would love to come back around and hit that ass once more for old time
sake. Don't fool
with him if he just got out of a relationship. It’s called "Rebound
Pussy". He gon act like he wants to come back around and do right by
you. 99.8% of the time he is lying his ass off. He is emotional and
lonely and he wants to be held (Yeah we get weak like that too). The
moment something new comes around he gone again. Let him take you out and
you pledge his ass. Treat that nigga like he brand new. He gon
leave as easy as you let him back in if you don’t pledge him. Make sure
your fly when ya’ll go out and make sure you get on your phone and cut the date
short. He is gonna assume you left him to see another dude and he ain’t
gon sleep right all night. And if it was one of them 2-7+ year
relationships you might as well let it go. If he don’t love you by now
and ain’t tried to marry you that’s because he not. Don’t waste your time.
Rule # 10 Demand he does you a
certain way
You can’t allow yourself to get
fucked over. If you don’t hold some kind of standard for yourself then he
is gonna set a standard for you and that is never good. Never call or
chase a guy. And if he says he been busy that’s a bunch of
bullshit. That means your not wassup anymore. Nobody is that busy. Barack
Obama has time to love his wife and he is fixing a fucked up economy of a
nation. If he doesn't call he is either not interested or interested in somebody
else.
I’m sure I lost my playa’s card for
this one.
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Reader Comments (55)
Some women just dont want to have to work for the guy they want. They just think it will happen automatically. NOT ME!! I'm going to the gym RIGHT NOW!!! LOL I dont want a chubby guy so I WONT be chubby either! I want a guy that is properly groomed, so I will do the same. Not only to get a guy, but because I know its important all around. I think that's the thing about this post. He doesn't tell you to do anything that will hurt you or make you weak. If I have to stay in shape, get my hair done (which black women should naturally be use to doing already) and not fuck every man in sight to get the one I want, I'm sooooooo going to do that. Especially because I should be doing those things ANYWAY! Man or no man! Anonymous, get with it girl!!
Mika
And I came here and loved the website too. Great article.
What I'm loving is the honesty (surprised at the profanity though) but I LOVE the honesty.
These 10 rules are cool, ladies, if you don't want to look good all the time you got issues. If a man tells you what to do to get a man you should listen. If your broker tells you what to do to make money do you say "but you don't do that! Fuck you"? If you do you got intelligence issues.
Thanks for keeping it real though. Keep em coming.
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This Will Be a Good Way to Start after my Break UP of 4 years...of Bull Shit...Lol.
I love the ten rules we needed to hear it from a man that's it.
Good job on this message. If you are from the hood then you would know that he means know harm when choosing his words. Sometimes to get your point across its better to use tough words. I loved his message, at least a brother is keeping it real with us sisters. Right now reading his message is making me stronger. I just broke off a 3 year open relationship, friendship really with a guy who wanted to do his thing and didn't want to commit to me, or even make plans with me to hookup. Granted I did my thing too, but only becaue I didn't want to be a fool and be faithful to a guy who wasn't mine. Guys that would be the backup plan he talks about in they where they want to be lol. Anywho, the part where he says if they don't love you by now then they probably won't in this article really confirmed for me what I already knew. I hope he keeps them coming for us who need validation of what we are already feeling and knowing.
it just reality people cant take the truth
short sweet and to the point some good points and some bad ones. Human have made love such a game But, a game that has to be played. Hola Farisa
These are really good points and are so true. Keep up the good work!!!
I find myself agreeing with this brother. I am female, in a relationship and has not only practice a lot of what Lewis has said, but whole heartedly believe in it. Ladies you know better, and this is just validation from a male perspective. wake the "F" up and get with the program. I am at the edge of my seat waiting for the next hit... or words of wisdom. LOL You go boy!
I am a woman and I totally agree with most of what you said. I could do without the profanity, but I am sure you will do better next time ;~)
Keep the jewels coming.
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may God protect and keep u and use u as only He can
have a Christ centered Day
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