This is soooooooooo really you said that!
I’ve viewed two of your videos thus far and I have to say that I am at a loss for words. In a good way. First I am excited that there are young men that not only love God but are able to get past themselves and share their love for God along with their godly knowledge to others. Second the knowledge that you pass on is actually accurate and biblical. I’m not in any position to rank anyone and their work but I do choose to send my KUDOS to you and encourage you to keep up the good work.May the grace of the Lord be with your spirit.
OMG THAT WAS SO DEEP! u know how they say the truth hurts? i felt that, its so true.I just wanna say that line was QUALITY! keep up the good work!
Nice insight! Shared it on my site: http://www.jayhyper.com. Also created a back-link to your site. Thanks man! Your blogs are so inspiring!
this was a cool view, but i dont agree with about 90% of it. i’ve written about why men cheat couple of time before (see – http://reyshizz.com/thegraduate/why-do-men-cheat-part-35/) and i come at it from a different angle. I do agree that people (for the most part) are selfish (in a bad way) but i think that behavior is learned through the people around us. check out my explanation and let me know what you think.
Wow! this was the truth! I have been watching your videos and reading your posts and I’m kind of at a loss for words, in a good way though. I liked that you kept it so real. So many people go by these stupid rules they make for males and females that are dating which is why so many relationships today are unsuccessful. I began to actually convince myself that maybe we males/females have to go through these trials and tribulations to find the right person, but we don’t have to as I am learning and am continuing to learn from your posts. You are doing an amazing job. Keep it up!
I’m from Nigeria. My people are very religious. Pray in the morning noon and night. I would say majority of the young nigerian men I know go to church every sunday without anyone telling them too. But Nigerian men are one of the biggest cheaters in the world.
Now I liked your blog… there is some truth to it in terms of the flesh and understanding what is happening. But I think it has more to do with society and what has been deemed acceptable for men. For example…if a man cheated on his woman and his boys looked down upon him for it as opposed to bigging it up….he’d be less likely to commit adultry. But because it’s almost a right of passage…men do and will continue to cheat.
Dude, you are the REALIST!!!
Lewis great observation…Everything you mention about why men cheat is true…. You broke it down and let me realize a guys perspective.. thanks
It’s the flesh. It’s in “his” nature. Aren’t women flesh? Just wondering?
THANK YOU, THANK YOU I NEEDED TO HEAR THAT
this was good
You tell emm
There is hope for the hopeless sinner!
Love is love, sex is sex…
Sex with love is great, but its just as good without it. LOL…
My momma told me that.
One of my male friends said it best,…
every man goes thru a period in his life, where its all about his d*ck, until he grows out of it, its not worth trying to keep him seated. LOL
Translation: Excellent vid, sir.
women are flesh, yeah, but we made different. we have our own wrongs that we lean to. PREACH son!!! “if he cheat on God, then he’ll cheat on you” –could not have said it clearer. THANK YOU!
I must say – real talk for the young minds of today! In these times these kids just don’t get it – thanks for keeping it real. Stay in prayer and keep planting seeds!And for the record for some of your posters – we are accountable to our God first – our society and our religious sects are groups made up of sinners. They WILL fail you at some point. If you base your life decisions and choices on the practices and norms of them without the guidance of God’s will for your life, you are destined for spiritual death. Just because you do something wrong and then get positive reinforcement for it from some other misguided person doesn’t make it right to do.
The video blogs have been great.
People, if your going to say something is true then learn to accept the whole truth and not just the parts that you feel apply to you. Its called the whole truth for a reason. Its not religion, its relationship and we all need one with Jesus to even get to talk to God cause we are all sinners in God’s eyes.
If a man can cheat on God, he can cheat on anybody and thats being real. If your man or woman doesn’t have a relationship with the Lord then they cannot do right. Sin is Sin and we all fall short.
Man I love this site!!! you keep it so real, not only that but you back it with word! I cant hate on ya at all. Keep doin whatcha doin and to add onto what you’ve already said the bible says in prov 27:20 that the eyes of a man are NEVER satisfied.
I totally agree with everything you said in this video except the part about Job’s wife. She said “Why don’t you curse your God and die!” The devil came to him in the one closest to him and still failed!!! I am glad that your doing these videos that will help the young and the old to make better choices in life. KEEP THE VIDEOS COMING
You are not honoring God with the language you use. Your point can be made without the foul language.
Brother Lou!WOW!!! I am impressed….A REAL SOUL!!! It’s been my experience that Men cheat due to Yes, the flesh and a short attention span…Keep the video blogs coming…I’ll continue to share!!! HIS WISDOM TO YOU!!!!
I saw you on Facebook and came to your site to see more. You are so accurate and real with a twist of funny! I love it! Keep up the good work and know that great hard-workign women are really thankful and grateful for a real man like you to reveal the truth!
I respect your point. I agree it’s a struggle between the spirit and the flesh. Church culture focuses on the SHAME of the sin, not the Freedom of repentance. Sexual sin “even if a man looks at a woman with lust in his heart” he has fallen. i don’t think there is one of man or woman that has missed the mark on this. LUST is a spirit rooted in an insecurity or fear. Lust can come in though many different open doors. Sometimes it’s a generational door, it can be exposure via childhood abuse, poor social enviroment, and/ or personal selfishness…The issue is for some repentance and forgiveness can be a quick experience, for others the roots are so deep that it takes more than just a I am sorry I will never do it again. It is spiritual warfare. Righteousness can not be earned or achived in the natural. Children of Israel tried but fell short. The word says that Christ is out Righteousness, not the law. If we fall in love with Christ, we will be transformed. Relationship via intimacy with him, is the only power to break the cycle of Sexual sin (or any other sin) in our life. It is only natural for you to become or refelct the nature of the one you love. THANK GOD FOR THE GRACE AND THE POWER TO RENEW AND RESTORE> FOR IN HIM THERE IS NOTHING BROKEN NOTHING MISSING.
I enjoy your blog videos, but I’m sorry because I have to correct you on one point. Jesus never thought God forsaken him. He was quoting scripture. Please see Psalm 22:1. He did this to fulfill the scriptures. – Peace and love
aight bruh this real talk, you don’t need to be giving our secret away saying why we cheat. nigga u need to take a look in the damn mirror and wonder why u are gay as hell. the question is why do men cheat not why men cheat on other men asshole. gayness is the flesh. Don’t put Adam and Eve in this nigga. God didnt make Adam and Steve lol.
I think that this was very insightful. I like that you are real and your focus is biblically centered. The quote about finding a man that will not cheat on God was so good.I would like to see and hear what you think that type of man would be like. I would think no sex before marriage, a commited relationship with God by going to church, reading the bible, fasting, praying, things of this nature.Very Good Lewis!!
Loved it. Regardless of your use of words, people need to get over all the sugar coating and tip toeing around the truth… Plus I do not recall anywhere in the bible where profanity is considered sin…
Lewis, your message was insightful, thorough and to the point. Women could also use understanding who they are from a spiritual/flesh perspective. Seek the knowledge people.
I have read through some of your comments and some of them I agree with and some of them I disagree with. I will say that all of the videos I have watched you seem very genuine and what you say is real talk. How you say it…. well it is what it is and nobody on this earth can judge you for that!! Keep doin you… Its real talk for sure…
That was the bomb and very helpful!
I was with you until this video. Don’t blame a man’s stupidity on a woman. We do not make your choices, YOU CHOOSE to do whatever you want to do. Just like some women stupidly CHOOSE to stay with men that do them wrong. We must all take personal responsibility for our actions. I had a dude (or thought I had a dude) who even went through the motions of having Bible study with me, at HIS suggestion. He was very versed in the Bible, still a dog. So, he didn’t cheat due to ignorance of the Word or the flesh, he did it because he COULD. Granted, we weren’t married, so you would say that he didn’t cheat. I’ll give you that, and because I am wiser now, I will agree with you. But, he was a big LIAR, unneccessarily. I guess your next post should answer the question, "Why do men lie?"
Lewis! You are the man! I love your blogs.. very very informative and I love the Christian perspective on real life issues. Well done!
This was very inspirational. Many key points. I love the references to the bible to connect reality with God’s "guidance". Thanks for sharing your insight.
LEWIS YOU ARE SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO RIGHT & SOOOOO FUNNY THAT WAS REAL TALK RIGHT THURRR, KEEP IT GOING!
You are so RIGHT my stomach hurts. Well they do say the true hurts! Continue to be honest and keep us on point. Much Luv
You make absolute sense in the reason as to why we cheat. You just pushed the religious thing a bit too far. I know some friends that haven’t been to church for years but dont curse, drink, cheat, or smoke. You should have emphasized that it gives more of a reason for women to trust them if they are involved with the church without any one or anything giving them a reason to be there besides themselves.
Straight truth … at times made me LOL but still truth.
I found you and this site by accident. Someone from another social site posted a thread of you and I just had to seek you out and listen to more of you. Great, great information!! Information and knowledge that should be widely spread. Especially for women wanting to know about men and how they think and why they do the things they do. Major insight coming from a man’s perspective. Staight talk leads to straight understanding! LOVE IT!
Mannn that was some real talk! I’ve been cheated on before and it’s true that he was not strong in the Word. The guy I’m with now goes to church every Sunday not out of habit, but to feed his soul and I love that about him. I haven’t been as close with God as I used to be but he has inspired me to do better. The saying is right that the couple who prays together, stays together!
I know that a lot of the things that you are saying are true but stop sounding like you have a chip on your shoulder from a woman doing you wrong. The tone in your voice sounds like you have an attitude. Try being a little more soft when you speak instead of sounding like you have something against women. I think people would receive it a little better
Brother thank you for your tremendous impacts and influences. I was recommended to your site by a good friend of mine. It is funny how she was able to see some of the things that were broken in my spirit and she held me accountable and told me that I needed to review some of your life coaching teachings on men, relationships, etc. Brother, after listening to your segments, I am so empowered and I already feel a life change. Thank you brother for your intellect and great examples and please keep doing what you do. We need your voice in the midst of so many dark places. God bless you great brother.
You are awesome!!! So plainly put even a 2 year old can understand it. Thanks for the enlightenment!!!
I have watched two of your videos and your are speaking the truth! I love it! I added you to my blogroll on my blog.
Keep up the good work and keep ‘em coming!
kEEP TALKING…WE ARE LISTENING..YOU ARE A BLESSED SOUL…APOSTLE LEWIS WILLIAMS..kEEP TEACHING…KEEP BEING FAITHFUL TO GOD! THE HOLY SPIRIT IS WORKING THROUGH YOU. BEING REAL AND STRAIGHT UP! WHO COULD ASK FOR ANYTHING MORE. I
Just Lovin’ It… All the way from Amsterdam and still lovin’ it… You should give Lectures or someting because alot of people will learn and listen …
Keep up the good Work!!!!
yes! i tried telling my girls this befre they refused to believe me! cheating is nothing personal! i aint ever cheat either, no one has given me a ring! [lol]luv ya. x0ox0oxx0ox
OOOOOOOOOOOk all this sound good and u hit some good point i feel u but er uh NO! IT IS NOT IN OUR NATURE TO CHEAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! However it is in our nature to to breed! When the flesh is weak and she showing signs the flesh kicks in. Now you have a battle of will against flesh but this aint some genetic flaw that all men have to cheat we are just unaware of this weakness and dont know how to stregnthen ourselves! The brotha is right but not 100% in my opinion!
I have a question. When you use the example of having liquor in your system and then a women hollar and he hollar. what happen to the men who don’t drink but cheat because thay believe that what my women dont do for me the next women will?
This is some bullshit…I cheat because I can never find a woman thats enough for me.. especially black girls, they want everything and want you to make stuff happen for them when they dont even get their shit and their life together…. Amercan woman period are fucking stupid… And i always tell them the next day that i fuck someone who was better.. Fuck black girls fuck american woman.. I want me an islander..
I’ve heard a few of your blog post. The first one on facebook. I re-facebooked it, because I felt it was something a lot of women and men needed to hear. It was titled "If you’re not married, you’re single". I love it. So far everything you spoke on was so right on point. It rings true for those of us who are searching for soulmates/partners. There are things that you’ve said that I only realized after I left a terrible relationship. And now after 2 1/2 years, although ready, not rushing to be with someone who’s character is f-ed up. I see who they are, I don’t commit and my motto is "when this rollercoaster ride is no longer fun, I get off". That way I don’t waste my time or energy with someone who isn’t worth my time.
Thanks brother for your words. Have a blessed and prosperous new year.
AMEN! That was great BIBLE STUDY!!!!! Very Informative! I love the phrase "Find a man that won’t cheat on God, and he won’t cheat on YOU!"
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